SEE?! HUGS! JUST HUGS!
Granted, the fact that Grace wanted to give the clothes back doesn't necessarily prove anything, but HUGS!
re: The title: I'm conflicted about the word "chick". I equate it somewhat with "dude", but then I'll call anyone "dude", but I won't call any guy a "chick", so... yeah. If someone refers to themselves as a "chick", I'll assume they're cool with it, and are, in fact, a cool chick. Granted, you can be a cool chick without appreciating being called "chick" on account of not liking the word.
Also, it's been a while since I've heard anyone say it, but is it cool to refer to other people as "cool cats"? I mean, cats are cool (Mario World 3D proved that much), but I feel things would probably end badly if I ran around calling people cats.