Gender identity: Non-committal shrug
Sexual orientation: Non-committal shrug
Hot wing sauce preference: Mild
This is a question I've gotten somewhat frequently in recent years for SOME reason.
If I actually felt more strongly on which pronouns were used to refer to me and truly wanted "they / them" or "she / her", I would push for those regardless of questions from annoying random people. Given my gender identity of "non-committal shrug", however, "he / him" is just fine.
Incidentally, if reading this comic left anyone feeling the need to tell me all about how they support misgendering people, please use the following contact instructions: Don't.